I’ve not updated on N’s swimming journey for a long time. Mostly because now he swims independently it means I don’t experience it directly, but also it tends to be much of a muchness from one week to the next.
One thing that has changed in his second (half) term of swimming, is that they have to wear swim hats. I remember when I was first learning to swim and had a turquoise 1980s swim hat with little bobbles in a flower pattern. Gorgeous.
Nothing like that for N. Their choice was cheap (plain colours) or slightly more expensive (Nemo or similar design). Of course I went for cheap. Much more practical, especially if you lose it the first week after buying it (mm, wonder who that could be?!).
He chose a black hat, which looked more navy to me, and then it was time to try and get it on him. Easier said than done if it involves a child who a) doesn’t want to wear one, and b) who won’t hold where you say to help. It feels like you need 3-4 hands to put a swimming cap on a child.
The couple of weeks at the end of last term, it wasn’t essential to wear the hats. So I gave up trying on the first week because N was getting too stressed and stropping about it. The second week (after I’d lost it), we had to borrow one from the pool, because they’d run out of cheap hats to sell. Even though the teacher had explained the technique to put on a hat, N was ripping it off before I’d even got part of it over his head. So over to the teacher.
No joy, as soon as she’d just plopped the hat straight down on his head, he’d whipped it off again. Oh dear. Stern words from his teacher saying that the summer term, all children would have to wear a hat or not go swimming.
In the meantime I’d bought a second hat. I’d done some asking round at work because a couple of my colleagues have team swimming children, and then a bit of research online and it seemed that people said silicone hats were popular. Or even lycra hats which are less sticky to hair so hurt less when putting them on, and are more comfortable to wear. Flukily a quick trip to purchase a cheap hat in Sports Direct, and it turned out I’d bought N a silicone hat.
Well, what can I say. This hat is brilliant. It’s so stretchy, even the senior child size slipped really easily onto my head just popping both hands either side and easing it down in one go. I was confident I could put it on N with no problems. And that’s exactly what happened. The first week of the new term, all the children turned up with their hats, and I simply slipped the swim hat straight on N’s head with no problems. And no moaning.
The weirdest thing to sort out is what to do with their ears. N likes to have his ears uncovered, but that means pulling the hat up enough so the bottom of it isn’t digging into his ear bits, or sticking them out a way. Sticking out ears from a swim hat doesn’t really make for aerodynamic swimming! Others in the class prefer their ears covered up…but then they can happily ignore what the teacher says because they can’t hear her. There’s not really a happy medium.
It’s so funny to see them lined up with all different coloured hats on, sitting on the side of the pool waiting for the start of their lesson and being told to get in the pool. I’m very relieved that N now doesn’t mind his hat – what a nightmare it would have been if he’d have refused totally. There’s a thing to be said for peer pressure and not standing out amongst the crowd, even with 4 year olds.
So if you’re struggling, here’s 3 ways to put on a swimming cap:
1, The easiest way (if your child will hold where and when you say)
If the child has long hair, tie it up out of the way. Get the child to hold the front edge of the hat flat against their forehead. Then you stretch the hat back and out, and over their head.
2, These guys say stretch it wide if on your own, start at forehead and then stretch it back over your head, tucking in hair afterwards Here’s a guide to putting on a swim cap on yourself
3, The comedy way, probably not to be tried with small children
Do your children have to wear swimming caps? Do they like wearing them?
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