As babies turn into toddlers, it’s hard to know when they’re ready for bigger, ‘older’ children’s toys, especially when it comes to exciting outdoor toys and bikes.
N had a scooter for his Christmas present as he turned 2. I knew he’d love it as he’d tried to go on the bigger ones at Baby Bounce, and this one converts from a 4 to 3 and then 2 wheeler. It is heavy (and the collapsible bit doesn’t seem to work anymore), but he loves scooting round the house and outside.
But bikes are a harder thing to decide on.
I was quite late to riding a bike…not for want of trying. I think I’d been given a bike at around 5, but was too scared to get on it (stabilisers weren’t around much in those days, and my mum doesn’t believe in them really helping ride a bike, so I was going from a trike to two wheels). Then we moved house when I was 7 and I found that all the other children were happy riding around the green outside our house, so had to get a move on…cue lots of falling off while I learnt to steer round corners!
Having a gravel drive isn’t the best surface for cycling on, but there’s plenty of grass so any outdoor toys need to be available and ready to go for good weather once the grass is dry.
N has a little ride on push along wooden trike, and a smart trike (ebay bargain!) which he can only just reach the pedals on now. He’s still not grasped the concept of pushing down on pedals to actually make something move so he’s got a long way to go to actually manoeuvre something by that means.
But I’d heard a lot about balance bikes and decided that one would be perfect for N for his 2nd birthday.
The idea behind balance bikes is that children need to learn to balance on the two wheels rather than having to learn to pedal and balance at the same time. Stabilisers encourage poor balance as a bike with stabilisers never has all 4 wheels on the floor, they always seem to lean more on one stabiliser or the other. So with that method, the child has to learn to pedal first, but then learn the harder part in balancing afterwards. Then there’s frustration and tears as it’s harder that way round.
Similarly to the way he’s learning to swim (so learning kicking, arms and breathing separately, then putting them together), having a balance bike will be learning in a similar fashion. Learn to balance (and steer – which he’s already doing with his scooter as well), and learn to pedal using another vehicle (trike or ride on tractor etc). Once he gets to a proper bike, in theory he’ll only having to master the putting together of the two mechanics.
Rather than the gorgeous wooden balance bikes, I decided on a normal looking metal bike. N’s got pretty short legs so a step through version was probably going to be easier. Even though I measured him and ordered the size of bike that should have fit, even with shoes on he was a bit too short to use it on his own. He’s been using in for almost a couple of months now as he’s had a growth spurt, and now it’s the perfect height for him.
I was thinking that he wasn’t quite ‘getting’ it a couple of months ago – he was walking along with it, left right stepping in turn, as I’d thought he should be scooting with both legs. But after speaking to a friend, it seems he is doing it the correct way…thinking about it, alternating left and right almost mimics the pedal action so it makes sense now.
It’s amazing how quickly they pick it up. He loves his bike. Zooming round, on our gravel drive as well as on grass, he’s really getting confident with it, and he even free-wheels sometimes, with both feet off the ground. That’s scary wondering how he’s going to stop, but the only time he’s ‘fallen’ is when he’s been trying to lift it from the ground to pick it up.
Hopefully in a couple of years he’ll be ready to move straight to a two wheeler…he can pedal a trike, so I’m sure he’ll be able to combine the two actions with no problems.
How did your children learn? Are you a fan of balance bikes?